| Location | Corby Northants |
| Age | 50 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 10/06/1959 |
| Date of Death | 22/06/2009 |
| Visitors | 753 since 24/06/2009 |
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My much loved uncle ray lost his brave battle with cancer on monday 22nd june with his sister Linda and myself and my sister by his side until the end
My uncle ray was a character from the start and was one of the kindest, most loving, most genuine people I know.
He had many funny stories to tell and We have lots of fond memories of him, like his legendary version of the 3 bears for instance :)
He may be gone but he will never ever be forgotten and is now in the arms of the angels away from any pain and suffering, getting the care he should have been getting before he was admitted to hospital.
We done as much as we could to make the time he had left special, making sure he was able to attend and enjoy his 50th birthday part, taking him on days out and fulfilling one of his last wishes to paddle in the sea.
Everyone who knew wee ray would agree that he truely was and always will be a true legend, 1 in a million and someone we could never replace.
The pain of losing you is enough to make our hurts break and the thought of never being able to hear you say "love ya toots" is far too hard to bare :(
I know you are now up there with the angels and a shining star looking down on us
Happy Fathers Day - by Ingrid Aspey
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┊ ┊ ┊ ♥HAPPY FATHERS DAY
┊ ┊ ♥FOR EVEN IN OUR HEART
┊ ♥ MISS YOU LOVE YOU BIG HUGS
♥ TAKE CARE BYE FOR NOW
ALL MY LOVE SYLVIE
I was not sure what to get you
On this special Father's Day
So I though I’d write this letter
This is what I’d like to say
I would like to thank you Dad
For everything you did
For your love and understanding
For me your special kid
You set a good example
Taught me to be strong
You were always there for me
To teach me right from wrong
You’re the one, who taught me
How to work and how to play
For this I am so grateful
Each and every day
You taught me not to question
Things that were Gods will
I find this very hard to do
‘Cos I wish I was here still
I know that you are proud of me
You always told me so
And I love and am so proud of you
Although I’m sure you know
One day we’ll meet again Dad
I know that this is true
But I’m sorry that God called me home
That we’re not still together we two
So until we meet again Dad
In Heaven up above
I wish you Happy Fathers Day
And send you all my love
Copyright� Ingrid Aspey 13.06.09
From your Angel up above X
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someone in the dark for me x x
When someone in the dark reaches out to you
And touches off a spark that comes shining through
It tells you never be afraid
Then somewhere in your heart you can feel the glow
A light to keep you warm when the night winds blow
Look for the rainbow in the sky
I believe you and I
Could never really say goodbye
Wherever you may be
I'll look up and see
Someone in the dark for me
love you more than ever x x
Im trying so hard to smile
Smile though your heart is aching
Smile even though its breaking
When there are clouds in the sky, youll get by
If you smile through your fear and sorrow
Smile and maybe tomorrow
Youll see the sun come shining through for you
Abbie had a great time with her auntie leeanne last night, hope you are up there shining down and smiling that your little family is back together again, just wish with all my heart you where here with us too :( still cant believe you are gone but know you wouldnt want us to cry but to smile and never let anyone come between us again, love you sooo much x x x x
If heaven had a phone
I Cannot dial your Number,
I Can't get through to You,
I Called the Operator,
She did all that she could Do.
There is no code for Heaven,
I Cannot place the Call,
No Numbers left to Call,
I Reckon I've tried them All.
If Heaven had a Phone,
I'd Ring you Every Day,
If Heaven had a Phone,
There's things I want to Say.
To Tell you that I love You,
And Miss you Every Day,
How much I prayed to God,
That He could have let you Stay,
but heaven dont have a phone,
so in our hearts you will always stay
Love you always, Kimberley x x
Abbie misses you lots and drew a beautiful picture today and asked her teacher to laminate it so she can put it on your grave, how i wish she could give it straight to you but i know you are shining down on us, miss you always x x x x
Thinking of you always x
I thought of you with love today
but that is nothing new
I thought about you yesterday
and days before that too,
I think of you in silence
I often speak your name
All I have are memories
and your picture in a frame
Your memory is my keepsake
with which I’ll never part
God has you in His keeping
I have you in my heart.
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A LETTER FROM HEAVEN
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say.
But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; Here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through.
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, 'I welcome you.'
'It's good to have you back again, you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, They'll be here later on.
I need you here so badly, you are part of my plan.
There is so much that we can do, to help our mortal man.'
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you.... in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years.
Because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
If I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is over.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
But together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too;
That as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who is in sorrow and pain;
Then you can say to God at night....'My day was not in vain.
And now I am contented... that my life was worthwhile.
Knowing as I passed along the way I made somebody smile.'
So if you meet somebody who is sad and low;
Just lend a hand to pick them up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go....
from that body to be free.
Remember you're not going....
you're coming here to be with me
FLY HIGH ANGEL FLY
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For My Loved Ones
I stood by your bed last night;
I came to have a peep.
I could see that you were crying you found it hard to sleep.
I spoke to you softly as you brushed away a tear,
'It's me, I haven't left you, I'm well, I'm fine, I'm here.'
I was close to you at breakfast,
I watched you pour the tea,
You were thinking of the many times, your hands reached to me.
I was with you at the shops today; your arms were getting sore.
I longed to take your parcels, I wish I could do more.
I was with you at my grave today; you tend it with such care.
I want to re-assure you, that I'm not lying there.
I flew with you towards the house, as you fumbled for your key.
I gently landed on you; I smiled and said, 'it's me.'
You looked so very tired, and sank into a chair. I tried so hard to let you know, that I was there.
It's possible for me, to be so near you everyday.
To say to you with certainty, 'I never went away.'
You sat there very quietly, then smiled, I think you knew...
in the stillness of that evening, I was very close to you.
The day is over... I smile and watch you yawning and say 'good-night, God bless, I'll see you in the morning.'
And when the time is right for you to cross the brief divide,
I'll fly across to greet you and we'll stand, side by side.
I have so many things to show you,
there is so much for you to see.
Be patient, live your journey out...
then come home to be with me. (By Anon)
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